🎯 From Frazzled To Snuggled: Bullseye Touch Technique
Hate grab-n-go foreplay? Master the ONE Bullseye Touch Technique to amplify pleasure & intimacy and hit max sensation step-by-step.
If this made your nipples perk up with interest, hit that heart! ❤️
Aim for pleasure: This Bullseye Technique will hit the spot every time!
Hey Wild Thing,
Most guys, because they’re goal-oriented, reach out right away to touch your sensitive areas. That is what feels good to them. So in their defense, they are just doing what they think we want, and what’s modeled in porn and media.
What works better is to start with your hands or arms or stroking your hair, kissing your eyelids and cheeks, or holding you.
Guys, if you want your woman to be more present and excited to make love, there are a couple of things that can make a HUGE difference in her arousal response.
The first one is, don’t forget to romance her. Have sensual experiences together. Not sexual but sensual experiences together in which you’re present with her. Before you do it sexually, try it sensually. Then you can seduce her toward more pleasure and a sensual connection.
Secondly, slow down — work from the outside in. Use the Bullseye Touch Technique. I learned this from one of my mentors, Sheri Winston, author of Woman’s Anatomy of Arousal.
In this video, I teach Jim Benson, a man’s Tantric trainer, this technique.
Click Here To Watch The Video ⇐ The Bullseye Touch Technique
The foundation for female arousal is relaxation. And it helps guys, too!
Going slow turns your partner on faster because their body gets the time it needs for the sexual tissues to fill with blood. This is called engorgement. Both sexes benefit from full engorgement because the more the tissues of the face, breasts, genitals, and buttocks fill with blood, the more surface area they have.
The increased surface area has more touch receptors, registering as increased pleasure in the brain.
Generally, the physical filling of blood in the tissue takes twenty to thirty minutes. But you also want to account for mental/emotional arousal. It takes time to let go of the world's demands, slow down, and be in the present with each other.
Holding and being held is a significant first step during foreplay because an embrace resets the nervous system from "frazzled" to "snuggled."
If you picture foreplay in terms of the bullseye, this is what the rings would include:
Outer Ring
Foot massage
Head massage
Back massage
Arms and legs
Looking into each other's eyes
Middle Ring
Neck and chest, but not breasts
Back and buttocks
Face, hair, and dry pecking and kissing
Sharing deep breaths
Inner Bullseye
Kissing with the tongue
Breasts first before nipples
Genital pleasure
Now, notice the Soulmate Embrace right at the beginning of that Outer Ring. That’s the heart of what I’m about to tell you. It's about creating a sense of deep connection and trust. Think of it as setting the stage, which leads me to something I call the Passion Patch.
Think of it like this: It’s your little nudge of intimacy – a way to gently spark things before you even start aiming for the bullseye.
It's all about using these oh-so-subtle little touches on certain spots that just kind of whisper to her body, "Hey, remember how good this feels? Remember how much you want this?"
It's about being understated, flying under the radar. A gentle reminder that, yeah, she does desire that connection, without putting any pressure on her at all.
The whole point is to help her shift from feeling "meh" or even completely turned off to feeling like a sensual goddess who can't keep her hands off you.
You're not trying to get an instant fireworks show, but more like subtly planting these little seeds of arousal that will totally bloom as you work your way through the Bullseye Technique.
It’s all about building anticipation and desire, bit by bit.
When you’re both ready to get to hands-on genital pleasure, which I highly recommend, I suggest you include a woman's genitals in the bullseye touch technique model.
Outer Ring
Belly and thighs
Buttocks
Mons Venus
Outer labia
Middle Ring
The inner labia and the opening of the vaginal area (Introitus)
Clitoral hood, but not the clitoris itself
Outer G-Spot (urethral sponge where the urine exits)
Fourchette (where the inner labia meet at the bottom)
Perineal area
Inner Bullseye
Clitoris, internal G-Area, and vaginal canal
Anal area
Additional nipple and breast stimulation
If you stimulate your female partner, or if you are the female partner and you have your partner follow these rings, pleasuring your erogenous zones from your extremities to your most private parts, you get the following benefits:
More engorgement and tissue swelling create more pleasure.
The ability to relax and let down so that your fluids begin to flow.
Your spit will run, you will lubricate your lady parts, and even your eyes will start to tear.
You will amplify your desire because you're not rushed.
Your body will naturally open to your lover because you're not being grabbed and hurried along.
You will experience a heightened sense of pleasure.
Your orgasmic response will become more pronounced.
You may be able to experience more frequent orgasms along with more intensity.
An overall feeling of enhanced satisfaction.
An increase in the general desire for your partner.
More interest overall in intimacy and less resistance.
Generally, men like genital touch much earlier than women do on a lovemaking date.
Ask your partner when he wants to be touched and give it to him. Many men find it calming when they have their genitals fondled early in the day.
You can still incorporate this Bullseye Touch Technique into genital pleasuring. Start with a touching technique that includes all the parts of his genitals instead of just the tip. Tantalize him and use a wide variety of touches. Enjoy yourself, and it will enhance his pleasure.
I am sending you tons of love this week. I hope you are holding up ok. It's quite a time in our lives for sure.
Get The Soulmate Embrace Here ⇐ STEP 1 Of The Bullseye Touch Process
I’ll Be Your Soulmate,
Suz
