💣 "FWB" Marriage Time Bomb

Stuck in a roommate marriage like Dalton? Stop resentment! Learn WHY passion fades & ONE specific fix to reignite desire. Ditch the sexless marriage trap...

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Hey Precious One,

Listen, I'm not going to lie. Keeping things hot in a long-term relationship? It's work! Sometimes, you feel like you're the only one lifting a finger. One of my followers, Dalton, sent me an email, and it was so raw and honest that I had to share it.

It inspired a response that I hope gives you a little jolt, too. Here's what Dalton said:

“Susan,

I have to confess that my motivation is low enough that I do not feel like the effort associated with doing the work (which I’m certain will be successful) is worth it.

It’s been enough years, with enough anger, disappointment, and frustration, and enough of taking care of things myself, that it just feels easier, less risky, less scary, to stay in my comfortable “friends without benefits” marriage.

I get that I need to lead, but I just can’t get past the point that I have to do all the work when she’d be quite happy to never touch me in that way again.

I hope that most of your subscribers can get past this point to make things better.”

— Dalton

Hi Dalton,

I’d really encourage you to cultivate compassion for your wife and take the lead in resolving your disconnect.

It’s really not her fault. She’s powerless in that when those love chemicals fade, it just zaps her sex drive.

Plus, women get bored without variety – even when they’re unwilling to try the new things you suggest. I know it can be infuriating and demoralizing.

The shutdown happens quickly in her body and brain. Her interest plummets.

But mind over matter.

You have to romance her, then turn her body back on, then seduce her.

You apply the brain and heart “restart” mechanisms, and then you reawaken her senses and her body.

It does take a while, but you can see results immediately for your efforts, which can make you feel more hopeful to continue. These early romantic successes also warm you to her and her to you again, and your relationship starts becoming more fun.

Right now, you are in a negative spiral, in a funk.

What would it take for you to believe that it’s beyond her control and she’s not doing it to you?

It’s happening to her, too. And though it doesn’t make her as miserable, because of the way she’s wired, she’d still, if the truth be told, love to have a passionate relationship.

All women adore romance and passion if they can get it. She’s just given up caring, she’s beyond hope.

And if you are, too, that’s a death sentence for you both. Because it’s not her “job,” culturally speaking, to initiate or fix. It’s yours, as the man.

You must create that polarity, variety, and danger/excitement to get her oxytocin pumping again so she wants you to touch her and give her orgasms, which creates more oxytocin. That’s the UPWARD pleasure spiral.

Start with the Stealth Turn-Around Tricks eBook.

Stealth Turn-Around Tricks ⇐ 10 Ways To Give Her What She Really Wants

They are easy and simple romantic ideas that you will see her respond to with pleasure.

Then, figure out if there are extraneous resistance issues you have to handle. Or if she’s simply turned off and needs a kickstart.

Then begin touching her again. Email me and tell me how that goes. Will you try? Please? Don’t give up.

Hope You Get Some Action Tonight,
Suz